
I hear you loud and clear but one thing I have learnt since being online is that it changes perception on things
As for what I would do in the same situation, I would never put myself in this situation. To me, selling high end stuff to someone from the other side of the country or world is just too risky and if I was not covered for the worst case scenario then I would not do the deal at all. Always wanted a MJ fleer rc. could have bought plenty online but waited til one popped up locally. I even owned a MJ exquisite auto #d/10 ..... also picked that up locally

at the end of the day, I have only ever purchased stuff online with money that I could afford to lose if things went pear shaped (always hoped for the best)
As for a life long ban, Doing bad deals no matter how big or small should cop the same treatment. Not just because it was huge amount of money because the principal is exactly the same !